Hi guyz,
I have a problem with the girl I love. First thing first, I'm 100% that I love her and she loves me.
To make a long story short as possible.
I told her that I dindt love her, but wanted to stay friends, what turned into a friends with benefits relationship. She liked someone else, and I said I was OK with that, in fact I was not, 2 days after that I wanted her back but she was dating the other guy already. Now I'm trying to get her back, because I love her, yes because I love her.
Now I'm getting messages that she loves me, and dont wanna lose me, but she cant decide.
I told her that, if I'm not the one for her, I'm not. I still love her, but this is life. It is how it is.
Her respond was: I love you!
I did this because I pushed her to much to get back to me, and that pushed her more away from me. But now she's scared of loosing me forever.
Now I'm clueless about what to do or how to answer to her message. I'm thinking not to respond yet, so she gets scared a bit more of loosing me. But what should I do after that?
I'm desperate too, because she is still with this other guy, and she can't decide. So I wanna get her back as fast as possible, before the other guy claims her for good.
I know that she loves me, but she's scared, because I was a jerk because I used her for only, that wasnt my intention at all, i felt good with her at my side. I was wrong, and broke her trust in me.