“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
I think TheChris should hook up with the OP.
Some people are drains and some are radiators... Keep clear of the drains and hug the radiators!
I dont see what the big deal is about just trying to give it your best to make up from a bad situation. *shrugs* Yeah, I'd hook up with OP, sounds hawt. lol I have no rules.
This
and this
actually made me lol.
I don't blame the guy, I mean, you freaked out over nothing while you weren't even serious, who knows how you'll react when something actually happens? Move on and try getting a hold of yourself. Next time when you're about to do something like that think about it twice or more. Good luck.
Flipping out like that over something so minor was a huge red flag. I'd have dropped you like a lump of refined U-235.
Wow, everything I missed. Whatever, I left him one last message telling him why I did and i'm sure it scared him more, but oh well. Next time I will think before I act for sure. I can't believe the stuff I have read on here. Vanessa said the most the most sensible thing, which is to move on. I made a big mistake because I as I explained to him, I got blocked by one omy friends before and now I assume everyone will do the same. It was a big deal to me because I had a crush on him and he had no clue about it so now he must know for sure and that also might have scared him away. Hasn't anyone here done something stupid like this before? I can't be the only one and you are all making me feel like I am crazy, when in reality I have been hurt so much in the past that I always assume people are out to get me. I am passive-aggressive, since I tend to keep it all to myself and then suddenly just let it all out at once.
Nope....never done anything like that. Not crazy but a little off balance perhaps. Your actions are not normal for most peopleHasn't anyone here done something stupid like this before? I can't be the only one and you are all making me feel like I am crazy, when in reality I have been hurt so much in the past that I always assume people are out to get me. I am passive-aggressive, since I tend to keep it all to myself and then suddenly just let it all out at once.
If I were him I'd never want to talk to you again. You're a freak and a psycho. What kind of person would write that kind of thing? Stalker? That may not be you in your hearts of hearts but this is an interpretation from a normal guy. You have no chance, just let it go.
Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant.
Yeah I already feel really bad about myself and none of you are helping. Yeah I came off as a freak, but I think everything happens for a reason, maybe I was meant to scare him away because deep down I knew he didn't really like me as a person already. Yeah this is why i hate those social media websites, sometimes I get too wrapped up in them. If I can't convince none of you that I don't have a mental disorder, that's okay none of you really know me.
Wer'e not here to make you feel better about something stupid you did. That would not be helping you at all. You asked us what you can do at this point and you received some advice along with a ear full of "what the **** were you thinking" . Youre not mentally deranged ....you were just being a chick....LOL! Learn from it an move on!!!
First piece of advice.....quit Facebook and delete your account....its the worst thing to happen to human beings since cancer.....Seriously!!!