Originally Posted by
Mona_B
Well, I am happy we didn't have these issues when I was a teenager. We just "did" it and didn't worry about it, it was a normal thing. :-) Why are people making such a big thing out of sex, that they have to "save" it? And then lie to themselves about what they are doing?
Kids are discouraged from sex because I've personally seen 14 year old girls get pregnant at my school. It is just so sad, to effectively end your life and development that way. It's like being grounded for 18 years. And you KNOW the girl doesn't have enough sense to raise anything more than a kid who will end up in jail anyway.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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