Me and my girlfriend of nearly a year broke up at the beginning of the summer. she dumped me after finding out that i was texting another girl while we were dating. I feel terrible about what i did, and completely understand why she dumped me. Although i made this mistake, i know that I'm really not "just another guy" and i was ready to do anything to prove to my ex that I'm truly sorry and i love her with all my heart.
Ive done things like:
-Appologized to my ex in person
-Wrote hand written appology letters to both my ex and her parents
-Messaged her older brother on facebook to appologize
-Stopped smoking weed
-Stopped looking at facebook
-Turned down other girls offers to hangout
-Started working out more and concentrated on my appearance
-Given my ex space and have been doing "no contact"
-Proven to my and her friends that im truly sorry and will never do what i did again
-Been praying more and looking to God for guidance
These improvements obviously didnt all happen overnight. I spent much time after the breakup crying and staying home, trying to avoid all contact with people. I couldnt eat and i would constantly look at facebook to check up on my ex. It got to a point where i realized the only way things would get better is if i started taking care of myself, and work on becoming a better person.
So i ask all you people out there, Am i doing all the right things after making a huge mistake? Am i proving to my ex im truly sorry and Ive become a better person? Any other advice on self improvement? I appreciate all comments