I really don't understand what happened here. Things were going great. She was attached from the first date. She would send me texts telling me how she can't stop thinking about me and how attractive I am. She even asked me if I was seeing anyone on the second date.. sorta hinting that she wanted to go steady with me. I wouldn't say anything cheesy back I would just say something like "You're adorable, we'll get together again soon".. This girl would even take me out to dinner and pay for everything when I insisted on paying the bill myself. Now tonight we set up a date and I was planning to ask her to go steady with me. It just seemed like something she really wanted, and she's definitely my type of girl.. Traditional, sort of old fashioned.
So last night she's texting me all sorts of sexual stuff, I was really into it.. She said she dreams about me and things like that. Earlier today she sends me a good morning text, how are you doing and all that jazz.. after a brief convo, I say to her we should meet up later when we're both out of work and do something together. She agreed but had plans til around 7. I said okay, well I have some things to get done today too so that works out great.
The time to go out comes around I ask her about an hour after 7 "Hey so just wondering if you're all set to go?" and I get no reply. About an hour later I send her just a "?" and leave it at that. Still no reply.
I really don't know what's going on here. She's never ever had a bad time with me. I've always been confident and on top of my game with this girl. I'm really starting to lose faith in dating. I don't want to assume the worst, but then again, I have no time to get tossed around.
This is the first time she has ever flaked on me, I may be over analyzing this.. But this has happened to me before to where I don't hear a single word from the girl ever again.
I really don't get what I'm doing wrong here. I'm a college student, I have an awesome life as an actively gigging musician, I'm good looking, I'm confident, I have a backbone and make my own decisions, I don't sleep around with a billion girls, and I am the life of the party everywhere I go.
Can anyone inform me on what may be the situation here?
Can someone tell me