If she is ignoring the fact that you have needs, why would you keep her?
She could also be stressed about college for some reason. You have to figure out if she is stressed, or she plain doesn't care about your needs. Ignore her words and watch her actions.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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