Instead of all this texting and internet chatting and flirting and he mis-understanding your intentions and you not understanding what he means, why the hell don't you just pick up the phone or better yet, why are you not just meeting up and getting to know each other that way? He's going to get a crappy sense about what you're like with all this mis-communication going on and you acting the way you are.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion