what is she thinking/ feeling?

[songman13]

Ok, i will try to make this as short and to the point as possible.

I met this girl 4+ months ago and we have become really good friends but that is it. Yes, i would like to be more if she felt the same way, but i have no plans on pursueing it. i am perfectly fine with what it is. Sometimes, though, i wonder how she feels about me.

Anyway, the other night she texts me at 3 in the morning and basically says " i just made out with some random guy, what the hell am i doing?" Obviously, she's not the kind of girl that normally does this. But i just cant figure out why she felt inclined to tell me? Is it

a) she kissed him but was thinking of me
b) she wanted to see my reaction
c) i've become THAT guy that she's going to tell these things to
d) she wanted to make sure that i know that she's not interested in me

or is it something else completely?

any help would be appreciated

[sadie_genie]

Can be any of those. Have you try making a move on her? If she isn't receptive, then she probably just see you as a friend to tell things to.

[songman13]

no i havent made a move, like i said i'm perfectly fine with what we are, it's just curiousity, i guess

[Gal4Love]

Hmmm... I think A,B and C not D. She obviously feels comfortable enough to tell you that. She may think of you as a close friend. Which could always bloom into something.

[songman13]

Thank you to the two that responded. I was really hoping for more opinions, tho.

[Yet another guy]

Talk about it with her. And tell her you wish to stay as friends.