Hi
Ill run through this as quickly as possible.
We went our for 1 and a half years. I broke up with her as I wasn't feeling it was working. In hindsight I sabbotaged the relationship as I had to move back home due to financial difficulties and poor job prospects etc. Which is terrible I know.
Anyway, she chased me for months and we kept in pretty much constant contact. Hanging out. Going to cinema. We kissed. Had sex a few times. Then we went on holiday for 2 weeks (which was booked while we were together)
It really didnt feel like we had broken up. I started to have feelings for her again and I know she had them for me. When we got back from our holiday I wanted to meet up to continue this and make it more official but she got all cold and distant and told me she couldnt see me as she had to get over me and she was seeing someone else.
Shes now dating this guy and I feel like Ive let her slip away. When they started officially going out (via facebook) she text me every day for a week or so. And even sent me a flirty text.
I feel her slipping away now as she wont meet me she just says shes busy.
My real question is I have wrote a love letter explaining how I really feel about her and us being together which is something i never expressed while we were going out but she always did. Should I send it to her? Is it too late? Should I wait for this new relationship to end before doing anything. I dont know if I should go no contact (as we still text from time to time and chat on facebook) If I send it and get no reply then fine, I lose. If I send it I could win her, I mean she did want me for so long? Even if she doesnt she'll know how I feel and in months time she'll know how I really felt if her new relationship doesnt work out.
What would you think if you started seeing a guy (and youre in the honeymoon stage) and your ex who you chased for months and went on an amazing holiday with sent you a love letter like this?
(I've also matured and gotten into shape with excercise and diet and feel great, also my financial problems are almost gone and future on track so its all win win there)
Thanks