Sorry about the title, it's kind of true but my reason for writing it wasn't to seem pompous, rather to get people's attention. Here is my problem: I'm 20 years old, in college, and have been dating a girl for over three years now. To get right to the point, I constantly feel the beckoning call of the celibate life.
I know the grass is always greener on the other side but that telling myself that doesn't remove the feeling i have. I like girls, a lot. And I like the attention i get from them whether i am in a relationship or not. That's not to say my relationship is unhappy, i've no complaints of my girlfriend. when we started dating, three years ago, i did it because it was fun and easy. we didn't argue or bicker over anything stupid, and we still don't to this day. but that's my issue. i was always sort of passive, in a sense. i just let us get serious because it was easy to. though i would tell myself, if ever the relationship becomes too much work, we'll end it and that will be that. however, that moment never came, in 3 years. and now i find myself with a girl that i adore (who wouldnt after spending three good years with someone) but that i don't see myself being with forever but neither do i have any concrete reason to end it.
In the meantime, whenever i go out with friends or in class or any kind of social setting, i'm always tempted to go mingle with other girls.
I know that nobody could possibly make my mind up for me. but i'm just looking for advice. thanks in advance for your replies