Hi chaps,
I'm getting married in three weeks time, and I'm also 4 months pregnant, with our planned baby. Last night by fiancé came home at 8.30 pm after having a massage after work, and when he saw that dinner wasn't on the table and I was on the computer he interrogated me as to what I'd been doing all evening and implied very clearly that he expected his dinner to be served. I had in fact ironed 10 of his shirts that evening and cleaned the whole 5 bedroom house that morning (I don't work full time at the moment so I had time, but not much energy due to the pregnancy).
I knew he was coming home late that evening so decided to wait for him before cooking as the meal I'd planned was fast to cook. His reaction however made me SO angry, and really quite scared about what he may turn out like in the future. I shouted at him that if he ever took that tone with me again that I'd leave and that if he wanted a cleaning lady/ cook he could hire one. He went quiet and has been sleeping in the spare room the last couple of nights.
I feel like he's been neglecting me during my pregnancy and I expect more tenderness and understanding from him. Am I kidding myself? Are any men like this? Did I over-react? How do we move on from here and should we even get married??!
Any tips and opinions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks