how to let go?

[Kyle91]

in previous thread i posted that I was with a married woman for 3 years...i know she still love her husband thou she say she does not...i really hope to let go but i don't know how...
because all the memories are flashing back...those happy memories that we had were real...i really feel like finding her back..
what can i do to make my heart less pain and let go of this relationship....?

[Andariel]

Did you break up with her or are you considering breaking up?

[Kyle91]

should be considering to break up.....it doesn't matters.....i just want to let go....she doesn't even care...ytd i wrote a super long message to her on her facebook how i felt...she did open but i doubt that she read the message because whatever i send to her most of the time she wouldn't read and she deleted the message...she didn't even reply me....
lol so should this be consider as wanting to break up?
(she also wouldn't care if i want to break up or not because she just think i only becoming emotional because everytime we quarrel it would be me giving in to her)

[Andariel]

Like I said in your previosu post , you need to put an end to this.This woman is taking advantage of you and has no consideration for your feelings. This is not going to change. After 3 years she knows how to push your buttons and make you feel bad.

Get it in your head that you deserve better than this and you won't be able to find someone who will treat you right as long as you continue the affair with her and don't allow yourself to heal. Break up with her, go No Contact from that point on and focus on yourself and healing from what she has put you through. Don't allow her to manipulate and use you anymore. She is not worth all this love and energy. You will find a girl who will be unattached and more than ready to make you happy and share all her heart with you. Don't settle for anything less.

[Kyle91]

thx..i'll try my best and move on

[Andariel]

Good luck, mate.