Hot Girl Can Not get laid Help please

[bloodtippedrose]

because your need for constant male approval, even from complete internet strangers, is a huge turnoff?
Guys hate clingy, whiny and needy.

Oh also do you look 12? because that would explain everything.

[newcity2010]

Being "hot" is only part of attraction... you have to be approachable, too. If this is a genuine post, you need to work on making other people feel comfortable talking to you.

Thank you for all the responses. I had a really bad relationship with my ex and it ended two years ago, every since then i found it extreamly difficult to be in a relationship with another man.............

1 year ago..I got in contact with some of my old flings and starrted meeting people in bars and online. went on a few dates and I dont fancy most of them ( as a boyfriend) Some of them I fancy sexually, What I get from them are " you must get lots men knocking on your door" " you really hot"...........

The men would refused to be in bed with be but keep texting me & calling me for another date, one guy said sex wasnt important, another guy told me I make him feel uncomfortable and embrassed........


it 2.45 am in UK... I am a little drunk and slightly pissed off... An old fling I met 4 years ago and had 4 dates this year just rejected me for sex! saying his only having sex with his furture girlfriend. so it another lonely night for me


I chatted to some1 online and met offline last week, handsome guy tall but no spark.. we got a little tipsy and he stayed at me.. in the Morning I amost forced myself on him ( for 2 mins) and he text me soon after he left.. saying "sex is not important...". " getting on to know eachother next week?" meeting him this weekend ( going to wear my hottest black dress ) finger cross.........

[newcity2010]

I do hear most men get turned off when a hot girl proposes something. I think they lack confidence. Not me. Come over the pond and I'll show you a good time.

What exactly do you say to these guys? Maybe what you said was a problem. I mean if you said "Let's try to make a baby" they would be mostly right in assuming you just want child support. That's how it works in Michigan anyway.

What I nomally do? Dress really hot, meet them for drinks or dinner... I think men like to think that the girl is into him not just after sex even tho he just after sex!

[Yet another guy]

I think men like to think that the girl is into him not just after sex even tho he just after sex!

When a man is just after sex, he's quite satisfied with her being just after sex.

[bloodtippedrose]

post a pic and let the men of LF see your alleged hotness for themselves.

[Red Apollo]

Hot women don't even need to throw themselves at a guy in a bar. They just need to show up. You are either coming off as the dirtiest thing in town, or you are exaggerating many parts of your story/looks. So pretty much, pictorial evidence is required.

[surfhb]

Yeah...there's something missing since its impossible for a good looking girl not to get laid.

[bluesummer]

Yeah, I think we need some more details, something's missing. I'm only what I'd consider mildly attractive and I guarantee you I could go out tonite and get laid if I were single. It's all in the attitude.

[eo_ih]

Let's see, I don't get much action but I've turned down fairly clear offers of sex a few times, and these are the reasons:

> Firstly, lots because I was too naive and shy to realise what the situation was. Then, once I was older:
> I disliked how she kissed.
> She kept biting me and acting crazy.
> She was too fat.
> Generally unattractive.
> Too old, fat, etc.
> Attractive but mentally very unstable.

That's about it.

[Vanity]

What I nomally do? Dress really hot, meet them for drinks or dinner

Dressing "hot"? What is your definition of hot?

Because there is a huge difference between looking slutty and sexy.

[Yet another guy]

Dressing "hot"? What is your definition of hot?

Because there is a huge difference between looking slutty and sexy.

It doesn't really matter which it is. Either of them is more than enough to get sex from most guys.

[Kyrina]

I have to agree with some of the posts here your either not telling us something we need to know to give you advice.
How old are you, its seems a very naive post.
Your from my country and the majority of male opinions here for sex is that a hole is a hole, if she's not hot put a bag on her head its still sex.
If you get my drift,because if you have fount the only niche in this country where guys want a relationship first and not just sex tell me i will move there