Boyfriends ex engaged

[Deeza07]

Not sure how I feel about this - they're not even divorced yet, have been separated about 15 months. I suspected this was coming as she was pressuring for divorce papers to be signed about a month ago.

I think I feel happy, which makes me feel selfish. He's been a bit hung up on some of the issues she has caused him regarding kids and living arrangements. I want him to be happy, but I think he's pretty hurt that she has moved on in that way so fast. He has said he doesn't think he could ever re-marry, which is what I said when my marriage broke up last January. But now I think I would, I'd just be more cautious.

What are your thoughts on the whole marriage after divorce subject?

[nerdy_guy]

If a person moves to the next partner too fast, then there is something definitely wrong with that person. Either she's been unfaithful to him for quite sometime, or she's been offered something better by the new guy.

Personally though, I don't believe in divorce.