7 months and I still can't get her out of my head

[Lifetime]

I felt better for a while, but lately I just can't stop thinking about her. Drove by her today, she was with her new boyfriend, it really hurt. Is it normal to feel like this still? I don't wanna lose hope but at this point I feel like I'm going to be down about her forever.

[smackie9]

You are like this because you haven't fully accepted the fact it's completely over. You have glimmers of hope that someday she will return running through your mind instead of shutting it out. You need to get very busy with life, doing things that do not remind you of her. Try stepping out of your comfort zone and do something you would never think of doing, like taking up fishing with a friend or family member, or go hiking in another state...go somewhere where you have never been before. The more you get going with your life, the less time you will think of her, because you are starting to fill the void.

[Mykee]

In the same boat bud. Wish I knew what to say to you.

I feel like crap right now. Listen to Alice in Chains - Down in a hole. Thats how I feel....

[Lifetime]

Good advice Smackie. As much as I hate to admit it, I do still entertain thoughts of her coming back, and even though I tell myself everyday "she isn't coming back", I just can't make myself fully believe it. I will start working harder at that.

[xmoe1990x]

I know exactly how you feel I'm going through the same shit right now and I wish I knew what to tell you but I don't. Just give it more time I keep getting told that's the best way.