Originally Posted by
Gal4Love
ooops ... I obvi meant "wasN'T scared away" Sorry lol
Well, she wasn't set all a gaga by it either. Unfortunately because Op has such high hopes of reconciling and he has more attachment to that letter than she does, he will be going through the pain of being disappointed once again I fear.
If she still loved him, then she would have jumped at the chance to reply in kind to his sentiments. She's not done that and likely won't.
Just don't get your hopes up too high, OP. I don't know of any woman who was still wanting a relationship who wouldn't be running back to him after a letter confessing such feelings arrived. Keep your feet on the ground and keep your expectations to the point of nil.
I got back and she wouldnt see me... :'( I tried again in a week... she still woudlnt see me... i tried again in a month... she still wouldnt see me.. i tried again at the 3 month point.. she still wouldnt see me..
Have no expectations and you won't be gutted if she doesn't come through with what you want. You like her way better than she ever liked you... I'm sorry, but I get that impression from everything you've written. Don't disappoint yourself if things don't turn out in your favour again when expectations and manipulations don't pan out.
Last edited by Wakeup; 06-09-11 at 11:39 PM.
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