I met this guy in June and we went on our first date in July. We slept with eachother almost two weeks after our first date, in the first week of August. We have slept together several times since then and things have gotten more serious between us. I actually think he was trying to tell me he loves me the other day but he seems to struggle being open about his feelings.
Recently we had a discussion about STI's. He told me that he had never had one and that before sleeping with me he hadn't been with anyone else for months and he had been checked and was clear. I told him that I was checked in June however I had slept with one other person since then, without a condom.
He has just phoned me to tell me that he has been experiencing itching on the inside of his penis, and he has been to the GUM clinic for tests this morning. He has been told not to do anything sexual until his results come through in the next two weeks. He said he was telling me out of courtesy and so I wouldn't wonder why he wasn't having sex with me. He reiterated that he had never had an STI before and he thinks I should go and get checked.
I am absolutely mortified to think that I may have had an STI and wasn't aware and that I could have given it to him. He moves home next week (300 miles from me) and I want a long distance relationship with him but I can't help but think this will put him off me. The fact we can't have sex before he goes is disappointing too. I feel like I've ruined everything. I told him I was embarassed and he thought I meant about going to the clinic and said not to be embarassed and they are just doing there job etc and I said no I'm embrassed at what you think and he told me not to be silly and these things happen. It's all very well saying that now but I'm worried that if the results show he does have something, and the fact he will be hundreds of miles away from me when he finds out, he is going to think differently about me and won't want anything more to do with me. I'm interested to know what guys think about this, has your g/f given you an STI and what did you think? Would it put you off your g/f if this happened to you? Or am I over reacting?