What would ex think?

[Mathias]

Thanks to everyone that replied.

I think there's a few jaded people posting on here who are all up for not doing anything and not fighting for love. Well done to them. Enjoy never know what would have happened if you had at least tried.

I'm by no means going to break them up but I know her very well and she doesn't seem happy. Not saying I definitely the one (as much as I want to be for her) but I'm far too close to her to let this end. If nothing happens and I'm wrong then so be it but I'm at least going to try and let her know how I feel even though she already knows and we both initiate contact (that seems very important on here). If it happens it happens, if not at least I know. She's my friend and the girl I love I'm not going to just give in.

**** you all the people who are very unhelpful with bad attitudes and scorned advice, I'm not asking for false hope NEITHER am I asking you to flame me down. Positive thinking yeah.

You call it fighting for love. The impartial people in here call it being a douche.

It's not flaming you down, or however you want to play the martyr here. You're messing with a relationship for your own selfish purposes.

That's not the answer you want to hear, so you're resorting to 3rd grade name calling and ridiculous, untrue assumptions about people posting replies. You're going to do whatever you want, and that's fine. But don't expect people that you actually know to react much differently than us on this.

[Leona77]

Phantom, if you really wanted to get back together you would have already told her by now!!! You would have taken the risk of being rejected & cleared up any doubts...But to you this seems very real and if she rejects you, you will know it's over & this is something you obviously can't deal with! You are just bying more time for youself which is rather selfish and insecure and unfair...As I see it, you want her to break up and be single so that you can have the whole field for yourself...You are just playing it safe and hanging around her so that she opens the subject/feeling herself. That way, you are safe and if you changed your mind, it would be HER fault for taking you back instead of you doing it to her again!!! So, you are just trying to be an arsehole & trying to justify your behavious to youself and others...

As for her behaviour...that's another story