I never went "psycho" about it. People asked and I told them. Hell her mom even asked and I told her. I never sought "revenge." I was relatively calm when telling people since everyone knows everyone it would have been pointless to make even more drama. Anyway, I know I shouldn't have answered I'm not going to again seeing how I've blocked her number. But it actually did help me realize more that I'm better off without her. Plus hanging up on her while she was talking was quite satisfying actually.
Funny thing about her blaming me. Because that is essentially what she did when it first surfaced. She tried to project negative qualities about me to her friends to justify her actions. My favorite was she claimed I was being controlling when I was simply acting out of suspicion. How moronic does one have to be to think that I wasn't acting that way because of her UNFAITHFULNESS? Honestly. She kept complaining about us fighting all the time, when we kept fighting about one thing. THE FACT THAT SHE WOULDN'T CUT CONTACT WITH HIM. I made the analogy to her once that her annoyance to all the fighting was completely ridiculous by saying is was like she was complaining about starving and then once being brought food, refusing to eat that food, and continuing to complain about starving. She "wanted" to work things out, but wasn't willing to do what was necessary and blamed me. She's just a moron, self centered, and really has too many insecurities. She's easily manipulated and lacks as stable sense of self. These are all things I have analyzed about her due to NC. She is already bipolar, but I've developed as strong feeling that she has borderline personality disorder. Either way I feel sorry for the next guy. Genuinely sorry.
Another interesting side note. I met one of her ex's and we talked. She basically went bapshit crazy on him so he ditched. I'm not the first nor do I believe I will be the last guy to witness her transformation from an amazing person to "holy shit, who are you?"
Last edited by simmo; 18-09-11 at 02:57 AM.
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