Where do I go from here??

[Jessica1]

My long distance boyfriend says he's confused about our relationship and he wants to separate for a while?
Okay, so my bf went mia for about 4 days. He then texts me saying that we're moving too fast and that we should separate for awhile because the fact that I was far from him made him sad and unable to focus.
Background info:
-We're both in college..freshmen. We are high school sweethearts. I go to school in Arizona and he's about four hours away in New Mexico (which means that yes we are within traveling distance from each other and he visited me last week).
-When he visited, we practically got naked and had what would have been sex if I wasn't so tight.
-I must add that before coming, I went about a day without speaking to him after a convo in which he basically complained about me not contacting him in 2 days o_O BUT now he's complaining that we shouldn't speak every night be/c he's busy!! wtf? what does he want??
-During the 4 days that he went MIA, I did send him a text every night (note: I would have NEVER done this if he didn't say we should at least speak once a day). and it wasn't like a "wtf are you doing??" type of text..it was more like a "are you okay..havent heard from you in awhile" type of text. I called him after the 3rd night as well.
-NOW i learn that he's basically been ignoring them o_O

i am just sooo confused and hurt. i love him a lot. i told him that it's okay if we break up but then he's like "nooooo i don't want to do that...im just confused right now" and then he stammers and stammers and can't get the words out of his mouth.
ughh WHAT DO I DO?? what do i say?? should i end the relationship right now? or should I wait for him to not be confused anymore? but while waiting, i'll be all fvcked up in the head thinking about

[mala]

babe ok, first of all, dnt think dat i can break up with u if dats wat u want, bcoz beleiev me at the end u must be thinking dat i soo love him, if he is happy to break up, i do it coz he will be happy. but believe me if he does u will break n wudnt understand whats happening. so ok back to da question, der is something in his mind,,,did u try n talk..i knw dats wat everyone says, but i guess it helps at times, ask him wats happening, why dat sorta reactions, n tell him its killing u n all...tel him no matter what hapend ur there n ur ready to forgive ( well not if he cheatrs u dnt) but i guess talk... i hope dat helps...

[Jessica1]

He says that he needs time to decide if he still wants to be in the relationship -___-