Katie-Rose, anytime you let only emotions make a decision like this, it always turns out badly. But will you ever learn from these bad decisions? You need something your bf is not giving you, yet you refuse to work it out with him, instead you try to "coast" into a new relationship lubricated by new relationship excitement. It's been 3 years yet you won't even try to talk to your bf? Seriously? If you continue to make bad decisions like this, based on emotions, things will never turn out good for you, but you will blame others for all your troubles. When you blame others for your problems, your problems never get fixed.
Stop seeing this married man. Make a real effort to work things out with your bf first. Get back to us on what you decided.
How old are you anyway?
Last edited by bulrush; 20-09-11 at 03:41 AM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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