Nothing Works for me.

[vashti]

Jeezus, Franklin. I've seen your picture. You are far from being as unattractive as you believe, though I am glad you have moved away from the sports jersys. As a nurse, I couldn't have even called your ears a "deformity".

If you weren't so young, I'd have a date with you, if only to boost your self-esteem, which after all, is you REAL problem - not your looks.

[Franklin]

As a nurse, I couldn't have even called your ears a "deformity".

No offense, are nurses even trained to know about deformities? Every medical site I have viewed has this as a deformity. I went to many doctors to find the right guy to perform surgery on me. Every doctor said it was a deformity. My insurance paid 80% of the surgery so there are records about odd ears being deformities.

[Cerby]

The point Vashti is making is that its your level of confidence that is unattractive, not your physical features.

[vashti]

As I recall, your ears stuck out a bit. So what? That isn't a deformity - though of course a doctor who wants to make money off your corrective surgery will call it that so your insurance company will pay for it.

Do you call droopy boobs a "deformity"?

[Franklin]

As I recall, your ears stuck out a bit. So what? That isn't a deformity - though of course a doctor who wants to make money off your corrective surgery will call it that so your insurance company will pay for it.

Do you call droopy boobs a "deformity"?

Doctors cannot lie to people. It's illegal and they can be sued.

The point Vashti is making is that its your level of confidence that is unattractive, not your physical features.

Having confidence is unattractive? I'm not afraid to talk to women. I've asked many women on dates. Talking to people has never been a problem.

[vashti]

Doctors cannot lie to people. It's illegal and they can be sued.

HAHAHA!!!!

You can't be serious!

[IndiReloaded]

Did you get contacts and change your clothes like we suggested?

[smackie9]

Sometimes being overly confident can come off as too much in their space, too pushy or forward, or abnoxious or too much attitude.


You are not the only one I know that has complained how girls expect a black guy to be gansta. It might have to do with demographics. Maybe change where you hang out, go to places where there are people that are more say "business" or "high profession" oriented, where women would appriciate a well dressed man.

[smackie9]

Oh and may I suggest laser eye sugery. Some places do offer afforable financing. I've had it done, and it's so awesome!

[Sonrisa]

Oh and may I suggest laser eye sugery. Some places do offer afforable financing. I've had it done, and it's so awesome!

i had the lasik as well, like 10 years ago and that was the best gift ever.

where are Franklin's pics?

[Mathias]

HAHAHA!!!!

You can't be serious!

Trust me, I'm a doctor.

[oldskool83]

post a pic dude, ill tell u if your ugly in a non homo way. but by the posts ive read....your ton is all wrong. your putting too much attention on whats bad about you rather then good.

if you dont wanna take any advice....plenty of fish .com

[smackie9]

My friends told me plenty of fish is full of whales......

[Cerby]

My friends told me plenty of fish is full of whales......

No, thats eharmony. . .those ones are so desperate they're paying someone to match them with a stranger. Plenty of Fish you get to find out how big they are for yourself.

[smackie9]

It must be the area......Vancouver has been known for its whale population.