a few questions

[lil_one]

so my current/in question boyfriend and i are having some issues.

recently he joined Facebook and added an exgf a friend (and not me) and we got into a huge argument because i felt like he was ok letting his friends and family know that he is still in contact with her, but with me I feel like I am kept secret (his family lives in another country and i have never met his friends). am i wrong to think that there is something he isn't telling me? i asked him about it and he just said its childish to be angry over Facebook, despite me telling him it wasn't just Facebook its so much that led up to it and its my feelings that I don't matter to him.

and now he just moved into my apartment building so i am stuck seeing him all the time and its making me incredibly sad.

[James Banes]

You do not have a few questions. You only have one: "am i wrong to think that there is something he isn't telling me?"

You'd be wrong to dwell on that question. If he's not comfortable telling you something now, he may never be comfortable. If he does tell you, you're going to take it hard. You shouldn't have moved in with him if you think he's a cheater.

[Mathias]

Wait, your boyfriend, who lives with you, won't add you as a friend on Facebook?

That's laughable on the surface. Yes, there's something he's not telling you.

[TheTooya]

You are wrong to get upset over him adding his ex on facebook.
You are not wrong to get upset about not being added on facebook.

... Man, wtf has Facebook done to relationships these days, ****!

[Mathias]

You are wrong to get upset over him adding his ex on facebook.
You are not wrong to get upset about not being added on facebook.

... Man, wtf has Facebook done to relationships these days, ****!

People are way too quick to blame Facebook.

It's just more obvious who the douchebags are because this tool is available. That's all.

[bulrush]

So your Facebook friendship status is what decides your relationship now? Grow up and stop over reacting. I can see why he didn't add you as a friend, you over react so much.