I'm in my early 40s. I've been internet dating since early 2010. I love it. I can weed out the posers real quick, and meet the greatest people. Things have really been working out for me. When I first signed up for a new dating website (new to me) I was getting emails from 7 different women each week for the first 2 weeks. I couldn't possibly go out with all those women. By my age I thought men would have matured and learned to treat women better, I'm finding that's not the case. Most men my age are still jerks, but now they are divorced and women now know how to avoid the jerks.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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