He wants you to come to him, he doesn't want you, right?
He wants you to come to him, he doesn't want you, right?
No he doesn't want you. He just wants to steal your car once you arrive.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
He want's you to go to him so he wants YOU. But he's lazy. That doesn't sound very charming to me... unless your place is really messy and you have an uncomfortable couch.. bed.. whatever.
Under what circumstances? What are his reason?
He's lazy, his car may be broken, or he may not have money for gas. Talk to him. Which is it?
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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My ex RARELY offered to come see me, and he absolutely wanted me but was lazy as f*** when it came to our relationship.
He said it was too far away and he wanted me to come see him for a change. But it's only 20 minutes away.
My place is large and elegant. My bed does suck though. It's a twin. I'm getting a queen soon. I love curling up with a guy in bed.
Well, keep that teeth-filled vagina away from him!
If you carry old bricks from your past relationship to your new one,
you will build the same house that fell apart before.
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When was the last time you did something for the first time?
It could be either a) he's just not that into you or b) he's lazy and being selfish by basically giving you the ultimatum "you drive to see me, or we're not seeing each other tonight"