So my girlfriend broke up with me like a month ago, still... She couldn't cut me off her life, she would constantly initiate contact with me, find excuses to see me, kiss me etc etc... Many girls uses their ex boyfriends as a mean to get over and heal from the break-up, they use their ex boyfriends as an emotional tampon.I gotta say she had alot of **** going on in her life and she started to brake in pieces since breaking up with me, at the beginning i thought it would be the best thing to help her with her problems, being there no matter what happened between us would be the best thing to do, but after a week or so i realized that what i was doing, was bad for me, and the relationship itself. I still love her so much and God knows how much i miss her, us, the good times we used to have, but i know that being there for her despite she wasn't my girlfriend anymore would just make her heal, drag me away from her and leave me with my heart broken, jealous and shameful. I told her i needed some time apart from her so i started no contact from last Saturday. We happened to be at the same birthday party yesterday, i totally freshen up my style, new haircut, facial hairstyle, clothes, i was looking good and fresh, cheerful and happy around her, something she didn't expect to see, i didn't show her neediness and depression. I went up to her and i said hi, smiled and kissed her on the cheek, we had a small talk about positive random things then i went back to my friends.. What i noticed is that she would stare at me alot when i was with my friends, she looked sad and frustrated, this makes me think that she misses me. She has really low self esteem although she's a gorgeous girl. What should I from now on? Am i doing good?
Ps. She's putting statuses on facebook about the fact that she's disappointed that "someone" left. I was thinking that maybe she's trying to get my attention this way.