Here is the issue plain and simple.
#1 - She hardly EVER gets wet AT ALL, going down on her, playing with my hands, etc... she is hardly ever wet... However after about 20 minutes of me using a clit vibrator, she gets VERY wet.. But unless the sex session starts off with the toy, it is uncomfortable for me and I assume her, to have sex... She does get a little wet during intercourse, but nothing like back in the first few months of our relationship (I understand that after the initial 'buzz' of a relationship, it tends to become less 'exciting' or whatever would be the best word). We have talked about it and she said that during a time when she used to get VERY wet, she was off birth control pills. But since she got back on them, it is impossible!!! I go down on her for 15-20 minutes and the only lube that provides us is from my saliva. We can't kiss heavily and get her wet like we used to or anything... So she thinks it is the birth control, I think I am just not as appealing as I used to be and it bothers me. We have a very healthy sex life (5-6 times a week), but I am finding that to get her wet I have to use other tools, and that sucks.... I have never experienced this before and love this girl to death.. Am I not working the magic well enough, is the birth control pill making this happen, or ?!?!? Any help ladies would be AWESOME!
THANKS!!!