Need outsiders advice!!!

[Jasmine1987]

Ya I honestly don't believe that, his is a flip phone so how can you accidently hit ignore? And when I asked him why he ignored me he stumbled over his words a bit then came up with that. Plus its not hard to borrow a phone to call me, its not like he doesn't know my number. And of course he just got mad at me when I asked him about it, acting like I was in the wrong once again.

[smackie9]

Well I see things haven't changed. A leopard never changes it spots now does it?

[sadie_genie]

Are you kidding me? He is playing mind games. He seems pretty unstable too.

[Jasmine1987]

Ya he is unstable, its one of the many reason I broke up with him. I just need to end it with this guy. Its way easier said then done! However, I know that if we do get back together officially I will still never trust him. I will always wonder if he is really working, or at a friends or w.e. I can't trust him now, at all, and what kind of relationship is that?! You guys confirmed the things I have been thinking but just didn't want to face.

[confusius]

If you think you can't trust him, then don't go back. Go NC for a while and sort things out for yourself. That's all I can say. Breakups are SOOOO painful. I experienced it couple months ago and it wasn't pleasant AT ALL.
Anyway make your decisions. No one can make you do anything. Listen to the advises here though. Very helpful.

[Jasmine1987]

Ya I can't trust him and he's just being an ass now! He fricken texts me this mornig accusing me of being with someone cause I missed his call! What the hell is that? THEN later that day he tells me he misses me and I try calling him, he says he's busy so he'll call me back in 5. I told him my phone was going to die and to call back fast. He doesn't call so I text him saying i'll call him when I get home and plug my phone in. I get home and have a text saying that he'll call me in the morning, have a good night, he misses me........ That was at 8:00pm, who the hell goes to bed at 8! I know he doesn't! And if he REALLY missed me he would leave his phone on and by his bed so he wouldn't miss it! Not just send me a text when he knew I really wanted to talk to him! I specifically asked him to please answer his phone when i called and he turns his phone off. Man I'm sooooo pissed off right now! Can you tell lol? What an asshole!!!!!

[codnchips]

Sounds a bit like trouble, he may well be playing with your heart. I'd take a big step back for a bit and if he doesn't respect that you have your answer.

[codnchips]

p.s. it may give him time to reflect and change.