Originally Posted by
phantom1
Hey
How old are you both can I ask? As a doctor yes he definitely doesn't have time to whatsapp you constantly it would be impossible for him.
Just keep the messages to a few a day and dont reply instantly but when you're both online have a chat no problem.
As for meeting up he just might be a bit unsure I mean I've met someone from online before and it's nerve wracking and well to be honest a bit strange, as much as I'm glad I did it. Also for a lot of guys explaining to your friends and family you're going away for a few days to meet up with someone you met online is a bit weird so just message him as a happy confident girl that he would want to meet and not a needy one.
Write him the song, record the video. Watch it a few times. Sleep on it then decide yourself if you should send it as that's up to you and the level of friendship you're both have right now.
Hope that helps!
Don't do any of that ^^^^ He's making absolutely no effort to move this fantasy email relationship to the next level as a REAL life dating and relating. You'd do best to ignore him until he reaches out for you. I suspect that by the time he actually does that, you'll have forgotten who he is. He's hiding something or someone from you so quit wasting your time, energy and most of all your emotion on him. If he's not initiating or wanting to meet you then he's not worth your time.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion