I am in a long distance relationship with a girl whom we click in every way. I have never been in a distance relationship. we have traveled many times to see each other and everything's always a great time. During the week i hear from all the time. weekends come and she disappears. always has a excuse why she hasn't been in touch for 10-24 hrs at a time.. Shes lost her phone, with family, no cell service etc. Does this mean is with another man? I have written to her a couple time expressing my concerns about the matter. always telling how much i care about her and the great times we have together. but it hurts and bothers me that she seems to disappear and is mysterious on weekends. I have always been available to her. When i couldn't talk or text her and have written her, shes been upset with me about it. she has said it bothers her that i write and not talk to her. but when it all goes down shes never around and i am just trying to get things off my chest. I have promised not to write anymore and talk over the phone instead. but when somethings bothering her she brings up the fact that i wrote her before. she calls them nasty letters. honestly they are not. why does she throw the letters in my face when they have nothing to do with anything?