Nervous about asking him about sex toys
I've been seeing a guy intimately for awhile now. He's very loving and tries to please me so that we cum together. First, let me say, there is no oral involved on either part-- neither of us care for it so that is a mutual agreement.
I've been spoiled to a vibrator over the past years of being single and not dating. I need intense clitoral stimulation. Most of the time, he provides it with his finger but there are times when he seems exasperated as to how long it takes me to cum.
I want to bring up using the vibrator together BUT-- he is very macho and I'm afraid I'll make him mad if I do. Some guys see sex toys as an ego-buster.
Is there a tactful way to bring this up without attacking his manliness?
If you carry old bricks from your past relationship to your new one,
you will build the same house that fell apart before.
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When was the last time you did something for the first time?