So my girlfriend and I have been together for a year and 9 months, and for 6 months it's been a long distance thing. When I last saw her I told her I wanted to be closer to her and I wanted to move to her city, either live together or apart but in the same city. Well her reaction was not at all what I expected. She was hesitant and kinda changed the subject. Anyway, I came back home and sent her a flower arrangement just as a "thinking of you" type of moment. She told me she loved them. We had a small spat about how I felt she wasn't giving me my place as her BF and this upset her. I think back and I could have been more calm and talked about it in a different manner. Anyway the next day she tells me she needs space to fire things out and I agreed because I thought I might lose her if I didnt. Well then she says we need a break. Agai , I agreed eventhough I personally don't believe in breaks. But for 2 weeks we kept in touch. She would call or text and I would too however she didn't want to tall about the situation and would speak to me as if I were a friend or acquaintance which I didn like. I gave her chances to break it off but she didn't but she didnt say she wanted it either. So last week I told her it was best if we didnt speak for a week and then I would go see her so we could talk in person. She said she wanted to see me but it was too soon to do so. So at this point I told her to call me when she had figured things out. We haven't spoken since. I guess I just want to know where we stand and she doesn't want to talk about it over the phone. I feel like flying over to see her face to face and get some closure if indeed we are over. I'm so confused. Do you guys think it is a good idea to go see her and talk? Or will it just push her away even more? I want this to work and want to exhaust all efforts before each person going our separate ways. Any advice would be helpful.