I dated this guy when I was 18, he was my first lover. We had a very bad break up. In which I was even raped when i went to see him, begging him to listen to me, but he wouldnt. I know sounds really desperate, but I was 18.
After 6 years, we started talking again and I was sooooo happy. He seemed to be just as nice like when we met. He told me he is very attracted to me, and Im completely sure he is, but I think I have scared him away.
The thing is that because my feelings for him came back so intense, I overreacted to things he has said. To the point that i have sent him angry messages because I have misunderstood his texts, and even drunk texts that make me look too aggressive. He must thinks I'm messed up and most of my friends think rightly so and that is mostly my fault, but I wish I could have better communication with him, so I can explain, but he once again withdrawed and is not giving me the chance to talk.
The thing is that after I offended him and drunk texted him, he told me that the fact is he is scared of me, and was upset with me to the point he said that was it.
But after a month we talked, and he started being friendly again, and told me he didn't know how close he wanted to get, because I act like a crazy person over him.
Well...then I had to **** up again. I drunk texted him again, and made myself look like a very aggressive person and obcessed, and he told me to try forget him and now is ignoring me.
I want this guy in my life, and I want to change for the better. I have stopped drinking to the point of sending stupid texts and I am trying to control my impulsiveness, but what can i do to convice him to give me the last chance????
Please help