Poll?

[lakers.rulez]

Hey all,

I've been reading lots of threads on here and have noticed that more guys got dumped by girls than girls got dumped by guys. I'm a guy and I got dumped by my EX of 8 yrs for basically no reasons. I'm not too familiar with this internet forum stuffs but can someone setup a poll to see some numbers on this?

1. Years in relationship
2. male or female
3. contact or no contact
4. how long did you got back with EX and happy for good?
5. Got back with EX then got dumped again (how many times and how long?)
6. Meet new person (time it takes). Happy or no?
7. Move on and happy with yourself. Find new love.

I would love to see some numbers on that. Let me go first.

1. 8 yrs
2. male
3. contact for 2 months... no contact now
4. not getting back with EX
5. kinda getting back but not officially for 2 months... but dumped again.
6. no
7. no

[smackie9]

1. 3 years
2.female
3.tried to contact, gave up, fooled around with other guy for a bit (no regrets)
4. got back with ex after 2 months (regret)
5.stayed togather for 2 more wasteful years, dumped him
6.dated several guys, good and bad, met my husband a year and a half later
7.still together after 21 1/2 years and have never split up, content.

[mwahahaha]

The lakerz dont rule. The jets rule. no wonder you got elbowed.

[Toddstar]

1. Years in relationship: 5
2. male or female: She was female, I am male.
3. contact or no contact: Decided contact because of children.
4. how long did you got back with EX and happy for good?: Less than one month.
5. Got back with EX then got dumped again (how many times and how long?): Less than one month.
6. Meet new person (time it takes). Happy or no?: Without comparing? Happy. Comparing? Not so happy.
7. Move on and happy with yourself. Find new love: Moved on. Happy with myself. Dont want new love. But she did really fast. Character tells all. We're two of a kind. Silence and I.

[Kyeema]

1. Years in relationship
8 years
2. male or female
female
3. contact or no contact
contact due to financial and organisational reasons
4. how long did you get back with EX and happy for good?
no thanks!
5. Got back with EX then got dumped again (how many times and how long?)
no thanks!
6. Meet new person (time it takes). Happy or no?
no
7. Move on and happy with yourself. Find new love.
still struggling... but don't want him back nor new love... need to get back on my own feet first...

[lakers.rulez]

So far... 2 males and 2 females... it doesn't look like any of us is happy getting back w/ EX... either got dumped again or not happy... Keep it coming...