Does anyone believe in such a thing? That our exs will 1 day feel the pain we have? In my situation i have hurt immensley from the second she dumped me,its a month today,in this month shes mostly been at work or stopping at her friends house,so maybe she hasnt had time to think about the break up,i think maybe when she finally does sit down at home she may start to feel this pain im feeling,but by the time this happens i maybe heales,then ill be the 1 laughing,thats if she does still have feelings for me or isnt dating anyone else,i dunno why but i kind of want that revenge for some reason,i hope she does hurt and cry like i have,cant see it but u never know.