Please help Im so confused !

[Thomascus187]

Well first things first hi lol. My name is Tom Im 19 years old and live in wales UK. Ok so here is my problem. basically a few months ago I met this girl on skype, by the way she is 22. At first I thought nothing of it I just thought she was really kind and friendly she would join calls with me and my friends and we would have a laugh. Not long after that we started talking to each other alone and kinda told each other that we liked each other. So we just flirted on skype for a while at first but then I made a joke about having sex over the phone and funnily enough she actually agreed to it which I found really sexy. But that night when we actually went in a call together for the first time alone, we just talked for hours and hours and told each other alot of things about ourselves and after a few hours that night we actually did have sex over the phone and honest to god I know this probably sounds stupid but Ive never felt anything like it. It was amazing and we both felt the same way, I could just tell we connected that night. During and after we had sex it felt like exstacy, It was almost as if I had known her forever. Now this is where it gets interesting, for the following 7 days we had phone sex every night at least once, some nights even twice . So a little time later I decided I felt more than just turned on by her and told her how I felt, like we were soulmates or something and fortunately she said she felt the same and I believe her. Its just when we talked we agreed on nearly everything and we had so much in common. So now I felt really comfortable with this girl and we would talk every night for hours and often having phone sex. The problem is I think Ive pushed her into a corner. I mean she told me about her past boyfriend and how much he hurt her and she said was scared to trust another guy and I can understand that. Then she told me she really really liked me so much and that she wanted to slow down because she wanted to be sure about us. I feel the same way I dont want to ruin what we have so I told her I was sorry for moving so quickly and I would slow down. Now thats the last thing we said to each other which was a few hours ago. I just want to know if anyone of you think we are being stupid or if I should go for her. I mean she was hurt really badly in past relationships and I really want to make her understand that I would never do anything intentional to hurt her. she always talks to me as soon as I come online she doesnt hesistate to reply instantly and always seems happy to speak to me, so it almost feels like I shouldnt be worried but I am worried. Im worried sick that Im going to scare her away. What should I do, Ive told her how I felt and she said I shouldnt worry because she really wants to make it work and she admitted I was being a bit too pushy but she knew I never meant it. Just tell me what I should do or what I should say I really think Ive fallen for this girl and I'd do anything to keep her. Your help would be much appreciated. Thanks.

[MerryH]

You should stop with all the romantic, boyfriend/girlfriend-type talk and just think of her as a friend until you two actually meet each other in person. Do you have plans to meet?