Personally, I enjoy meeting people with no pressure. Try meetup. I am a great fan of it. No pressure whatsoever. You just go out and enjoy mingling with other people. It's a bonus if you have someone contact you privately after an event. Then, meet up and see how you get on. If things are not going forward with that person, then you will bump into each other in another event and become regular meetup friends!
Somehow, I have at least one person contact me privately after each meetup. Then, we meet and see how things pan out....... Try it!
“Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important.” - Hermione Gingold-