^^^ This is starting to sound like a broken record.
how do u other women do it?? i dont know.
If you learn to do it deep, then you don't even have to feel the texture or taste the taste. One's throat does not have taste buds on it. If you have a low tolerance gag reflex then just let it run out of your mouth and back down upon his unit (while he's still in your mouth) and let him deal with the cleanup.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion