Need advice from woman ASAP.

[Freshly]

Hey all, need a fast response before I possibly make a huge mistake.

I am a hopeless romance and when I find a girl I like, I dont just give up, im not full on but I just dont give up.

Anyway, last few weeks been chilling with the most perfect girl and I went for it but got rejected, I just laughed it off and played it cool and we carried on chilling as friends.

My plan is now to wisk her off to paris for the weekend, is this a bad idea?

She wont find it weird me asking and paying for her to do this but if you are friend zoned could even an all paid for romantic weekend in Paris still keep you in the friend zone?

Last girl I was in a similar situation with I hired her favourite band to come to her house and play her a dedicated song, I still ended in the friend zone.


So from a girls point of view, chilling with some guy you have got pretty close to, you only see him as a friend, he takes you off to paris, could this change anything for you?

[MerryH]

So from a girls point of view, chilling with some guy you have got pretty close to, you only see him as a friend, he takes you off to paris, could this change anything for you?

No, jeez. Do you think you can buy people's affections? Stop that.

[Freshly]

No I just dont give a shit about money and know she has always wanted to go for a weekend in Paris but every guy has never followed through on the promise

[MerryH]

Okay, then. Take her to Paris, but don't expect that to change her mind.

And what if it did actually change her mind? Would you respect her? Would you think that she actually likes you, or that she just likes your money and gifts?

[Freshly]

I am not that bothered about her changing her mind would just be an awesome weekend but yeah your right on your second point, it just seemed like a good idea but yeah stupid idea really

[MerryH]

Not stupid, just a little misguided. It's a nice idea, but it's the wrong way to go about trying to win someone over. Save the grand gestures for girls who are serious about you.

[steviej]

Exactly, save it for a girl who feels the same way about you.