Seeing my ex tomorrow - big appointment or a chance to show off things?

[lna]

So I'm seeing my ex girlfriend tomorrow, that's right... My ex. We broke up two months ago but we cannot let go, both me and her, I've been doing anything to get her off my mind, but nothing worked, she still occupies that big chunk inside my heart, no matter what they say to me. I could've moved on if she gave me the signs she wasn't interested in me anymore but it's a matter of fact she did and still does, she's still jealous about girls writing on my facebook, she can't stay without hearing from me, she looks thru photos and our stuff, she still wear my shoes, she reads my old letters and listen to our songs which make her sad. She broke up with me for a fair share of reasons, she said that I've changed in the last months, being disattached, not being able to understand and listen to her, as if i was off into another world, I think it's just something she played me off with... I believe she started losing interest in me for the fact that I started to become submissive and put her needs ahead of my own losing her respect and interest as consequence, she relied on another dude which she's fooling and she talks about me all the time to him... We are going out for a bite to eat late in the afternoon tomorrow, she's still in love with me that is pretty clear but she's scared that if she gets back together with me again I'll be the same as the last months of the relationship. I need to show off my new attractive traits tomorrow, confidence, maturity, listening skills and basically have a good time with her. I want to win her back. What should I do to let her fears fade and let go so she understand that she's better off with me again instead of suffering like she has been in the last two months, cause she really is

[bulrush]

She sounds like she is not quite compatible with you for a longer relationship. So, why would you want to win someone like that back?

Enjoy the short term though, I guess.

[lna]

She sounds like she is not quite compatible with you for a longer relationship. So, why would you want to win someone like that back?

Enjoy the short term though, I guess.

I can correct things that go wrong with myself for the sake of the relationship cause i do really care but... let's see... I guess i'll live it day by day if we ever get back together. What is that I should do tomorrow

[sadie_genie]

What she tells you is completely the opposite of what you believe she dumped you for. It doesn't sound like you have a good idea what she needs or is looking for. You think it is the lost of interest because you have been too needy but her actions shows that is not the case at all and you even said she is still in love with you. So, what makes you think it is the lost of interest? Sounds like your insecurities led you to think she dumped you because she lost interest.I say, you should really think about the reasons she gave you for dumping you. Show her tomorrow that you have changed. Listen to her and give her your full attention.

[lna]

What she tells you is completely the opposite of what you believe she dumped you for. It doesn't sound like you have a good idea what she needs or is looking for. You think it is the lost of interest because you have been too needy but her actions shows that is not the case at all and you even said she is still in love with you. So, what makes you think it is the lost of interest? Sounds like your insecurities led you to think she dumped you because she lost interest.I say, you should really think about the reasons she gave you for dumping you. Show her tomorrow that you have changed. Listen to her and give her your full attention.

Totally right... I will show her that i've turned into a secure person who can listen.. umm what are some tips you would give me