Hello all of you new people seeking relationship advice and those of you eager to help. You'll notice that ALL posts made by individuals have a date stamp on them. If the last comment is more than a week or two ago do everyone a favor and DON'T COMMENT ON IT. If you comment on it the entire thread will end up back at the top with the newer ones for no reason other than the fact that you commented on it. If someone's question has already been answered, or it has simply been commented on extensively, let it be and either start another thread or comment on an active one.

Everyone bitches about this problem, but I wanted to be proactive and reach the root of the problem, which seems to be new users. We all appreciate having you here and would like to help you, but be mindful of the date of the last post in a thread. If you have to go to different pages to view other threads, chances are that they are old, so check the dates.