Originally Posted by
aylie
Hi Im new here just randomly found this site.. i duno if there is another post about this but whatever id like to hear some feedback.
i know guys here this all the time but i just had a question. how come EVERY guy i meet or date only wants to have a sexual relationship with me. It doesnt matter if i hold out for month with a guy he will wait or i give it up fast.. i ccan never find a guy who wants more than that. i dunno what it is.. even when i feel like hey this guy seems like hes cool and isnt like, he ends up turning into that. i mean guys tell me im "sexy" or whatever but i dont try to push that its jsut the way i am. does this mean ill never find a good guy? and my main question for men what does a girl have to be like for u to just see her as sex, what could i be doing wrong and how can i changee
It doesn't matter how long you wait. What matters is what is happening while you're waiting. If he's introducing you to friends and family, treating you like he wants you in his life for more than booty, then usually he wants you for more than booty. The length of time you wait has sweet bugger all to do with it if while you're waiting he's not progressing things with you other than attempts at getting in your pants.
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