I met this guy online about five years ago. (Wait for it.)
We became fast friends, and a couple months later decided that he was growing feelings for me, and so wanted to come down and start the dating thing. Now, when we first met I was underage. I was 17 and he was 22. At the beginning, I told him I couldn't give him a picture of me, because I wasn't allowed to. He understood. But then my friend, who also knew him, gave him a fake picture, saying it was me. And so he thought that I was this chick, and I had no idea. *Until* I posted pictures of me, and he found out that I wasn't this centerfold chick he had been falling in love with, and he distanced himself from me. Which, was painful, because I thought we were good friends and he just kinda've.......basically, ditched me for a couple weeks.
Well I guess he realized I didn't look *too* unattractive for him, and so we started talking again, but I would notice he would be very distant. He had also became very sexual with me at the same time (talking about my body, using words like f*ckable, going on about my rack, stuff like that) and we realized that on those grounds, we had alot of sexual chemistry.
Fast forward, and now I am a senior in college . He wants to come visit me later this month, but I just feel conflicted about it. I *Do* want to see him, I want to the see man I've been texting, phoning, video chatting and MSN'ing for the past five years. But another part of me thinks he'll just come down here for a good time, and I will never see him or speak to him again. Before, I did have some romantic feelings for him, but no longer. I just don't want to be considered a piece of meat. I asked him if he just wanted to have sex, and he said no, he wanted to come spend some time with me. And if sex happened, it happened. But he's a man, and he could be seriously lying.
I still want his company, because I do enjoy his personality, and our conversations, but.....I just feel like he may just be using me?