My ex of 2 1/2 years broke up with me a over a week ago now and the following days she would contact me with things such as: I love and Miss you, I know we need time apart but its hard, ive been a mess etc.
So finally I told her maybe we should stop all contact. (I didnt want to keep hearing that she loved me meanwhile she was obviously confused herself since she was not asking to be with me). After I proposed that idea, she said she hates not talking to me but that I was right and time would heal. She then proceeded with I love you have a good night.
So my question is do you think it was a smart move on my part to offer cutting all contact?
I havent heard from her in a week and do really miss her and wish we could get back together to work on things. I do want this girl back so we can fix our problems in our relationship, but I'm not sure about the correct way of handling this situation.
Do you think I just shut the door on a possible reconcilliation?