One of my best girl friends recently told me that she posts ads online to have casual lunch dates with men to break up the monotony of work. She is in a committed relationship with her guy. She claims that she only talks with them, that she does it because it is interesting, kind of exciting, it only lasts about an hour in a public restaurant-type location, and she never trades or keeps anyone's contact info. She claims that she would never cheat on her man, has no intentions to do so, and that this stranger-lunch-chat-session is only for shits. She says that she posts these ads with clear expectations up front that it is only to have a friendly chat, and absolutely no more.
I've seen her relationship with her guy, and I've never seen any issues. In fact, she adores him with her words and actions (aside from these weird lunch visits, in my opinion).
Despite what she says, I still think this is wrong. What do you think?