I'll keep this simple and im not shit talking either.
Met girl 2 months ago, went on many dates, text alot have been very close physicaly. Tuesday had a date at my house for her to cook dinner due to a bet she lost. Monday night we had talked and was told what i needed to get, tuesday mid to late day i asked what she wanted to drink since i didnt have much at home. She told me, about hour later after that was all set up i get a long text saying shes sorry her gf who is her landlord needed her to come home right after work and pick somthing out for her appartment before her landlord went and bought it. She told me to put the food in the freezer and give her a rain check. She did say shes sorry.
I had asked later when would she like the raincheck and if thursday to sunday would work. Keep in mind her jacket, scarf and necklace are still laying on my kitchen chair. My mind is questioning and gaurd prob going up some too. After 2 months never pulling anything like this i could see excusing it.
She always spend a lot of time kissing me and holding my hand, telling me good things and how she wants me, never wanting to go home either. I do know she recently moved into a new appartment maybe month ago and some things were not fully done yet. No one likes to get burned, we had a talk weeks ago how she does not front and she was very direct in telling me that to my face. I'm not gonna freak out there cuz i feel the ball is in her court now, if i blow up phone asking why why why i look like a fool. Ive never been needy with her.
I dont feel she'd have me buy $20 worth of food to then blow me off. I will say if and when i do get to talk to her next i would say next time please give me more of a warning if you can. I got the news about 3.5 hours before she was going to be over
I'd think if you'd want to do this on purpose (not saying she is because im not pointing the blame finger at anyone) you would do early on, not after 2 months and not after getting very pshycial with a person either. Maybe she feels bad and wants to let the dust settle down a few days, or its a test to see how i'd handel a conflict.