We split because I needed to advance the relationship to living together and he could not. We parted both hoping that perhaps with the therapy he is getting he can figure out why he is so against it when really he does want me for the rest of his life.
Anyway it has been a few weeks now, no contact for eight days. It hurts more and more every day because I can't help thinking he does not care or miss me because he does not at least write "you doing okay?'. I have not contacted him because I know how that is only negative on our chances. That he will think he can take his time getting better because I am out there only thinking of him. I know I had found a message board somewhere on this before and how time can seem so slow for woman and not for men. I read once of someone in the same situation and in six weeks he was calling her and they were together.
I am sorry, I am just constantly analyzing this no contact thing. Imagining him out there happy, while I am miserable. I guess I need someone to confirm that just because they don't contact you it doesn't mean they don't love you. I just wish I knew he was still trying to figure himself out so that he could be with me again.
Thanks for reading.