Boyfriend cheating on me with porn - how do I put a stop to this?

[Mathias]

[*]You seem to have a bit of "Jesus Syndrome", trying to save people who you think need to be saved. Yet you fail to open your mind and improve yourself. Is that really what Jesus would do?[/LIST]

Of course that's what Jesus would do. He was perfect, so no need to improve.

By extension, Rachel is perfect. Obviously.

[Wakeup]

Give us a quote/example from a place that is a mecically acredited site. Just because someone says something does not make it true.

OMG! You mean google can't be trusted? *hangs head* Say it isn't so ...

[bulrush]

I will not be snarky anymore.
I will not be snarky anymore.
I will not be snarky anymore.

Oh, I CAN'T RESIST!!
lol.

[Wakeup]

^^^ ^^^

[KingZ]

While we're all sitting here, having fun, I figured I would drop this here:

[Boisdevie]

Rachael,
I'm wanking right now thinking of you.
Does that make me destined for hell?

[Mathias]

Rachael,
I'm wanking right now thinking of you.
Does that make me destined for hell?

More importantly, I think that makes HER destined for hell.

[bloodtippedrose]

This thread is awesome.

[bombboy85]

I once was a christian, went to private christian read the bible and made my own choices in life, before anyone but OP takes this the wrong I respect women completely.... but I really would love to see the look on OP's face if her boyfriend presented her with the following

Timothy 2:11
11A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. 12I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent.

In other words the bible tells you that you have no authority to change your man so shaddup and either deal with who he is or leave.

[IndiReloaded]

Thanks DMMlol. Minx, I hope you watch that vid.

Science adjusts its views based on what's observed. Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.

Amen. LOL.

[workingman78]

I wonder, to the OP, have you had sex with your boyfriend? Could it be that you just aren't very good at it?

[Rachel Pierce]

Of course that's what Jesus would do. He was perfect, so no need to improve.

By extension, Rachel is perfect. Obviously.

Wow! Thanks! It means a lot, considering all the other attitudes on here. Tho I'd hardly say I'm perfect, but I do try to be a good Christian. If I seem perfect to you, which I'm really not, it's probably because a Christian is always better than a non-Christian, and I dont mean any offence by that. It's just that we have a sound moral compass to guide us through life because of The Bible and it's lessons and messages and word, which give us decent values and higher morals and a strong belief in something greater than ourselves.

You know, the attitude to sex on here is pretty disgusting, and I'm going to say that I think a lot of people are attacking my viewpoint on porn because they are trying to justify their perversion to themselves. They are not really attacking me, they are trying to convince themselves they are perfectly normal, instead of addressing their own issues.

I'm willing to bet that if we were all to go back 50 or so years, before we had widespread pornography permeating society, before websites like 'yourporn' were there and easily accessible to kids, that if a man married a woman there's no way he'd even suggest anal sodomy to her, or even ask to put his thing in her mouth. Yuck! It's because of porn and the degeneration of society that you think all these things are normal parts of sexual relationships. But I have news for you, they really aren't. And if you respected your partner properly there's no way you'd be asking for sodomy or for her to drink your semen. I'm sorry, but that's just gross.

[MerryH]

Aren't you precious.

They are not really attacking me

No, they pretty much are attacking you, and for good reason. The way you phrase your argument invites attack. You're not going to change anyone's mind by being a hysterical zealot. It is entertaining, though.

If you're serious about your quest to save the world from porn by posting on an internet forum where nobody gives a shit about what you say, maybe you could work on your approach. Also work on your ability to recognize sarcasm. You look like an idiot.

[IndiReloaded]

Wow! Thanks! It means a lot, considering all the other attitudes on here. Tho I'd hardly say I'm perfect, but I do try to be a good Christian. If I seem perfect to you, which I'm really not, it's probably because a Christian is always better than a non-Christian, and I dont mean any offence by that.

Rachael, read carefully. You do know how, I assume. The bible is a requirement for you crazies. Tho way back when, the monks made it a point to keep you illiterate and ignorant of their scams. Anyway.

Separate the porn issue from your Christian-thing. They are both addictions, just of a different sort. There are documented studies showing that those having a religious 'rapture' moment produce the same neurochemicals that someone doing drugs gets. So, sorry to break it to you but that's you babe. Congrats, you are another victim of brainwashing. Fine. I enjoy a good whiskey now and again. I'm not stupid enough to think that it makes me better than those who drink vodka, tho. Or nothing at all.

Anyway, I've probably lost your poor single firing neuron by now so here's the wrap:

There are plenty of atheists who have no interest in porn. Or drugs. Or religion. I would never date anyone who did any of those things. Same for you. Your choice to be Christian is irrelevant. Just decide what your boundaries are and choose your partner accordingly.

[steviej]

Your boyfriend chooses porn because you don't put out, give him a blowjob or let him stick it up your butt.
Of course he's going to masterbate himself into a dehydrated coma each night! It's your fault Rachel.