Why is she with me?

[Cmfd]

I have been seeing this girl for about 6 months now and I'm having a hard time looking past the fact that she really is out of my league.

I'm a college student with about 8 months to go living at my parents. I easily make enough to move out on my own but would rather take advantage of free rent till I graduate.*

She is a divorced mom with a 3 year old daughter living on her own and supporting herself. She is 3 years older than me. Gorgeous smart and funny.

We met thru mutual friends and she went after me. I thought she was way to hot for me so I wasn't going to try for her. She has told me her type of guy and I'm nothing like her type. Our friends keep telling both of us that she is out of my league. Even she has mentioned it.

I asked her why she is with me, I'm a 5, she is a 9. I'm nothing like what she looks for in guys. She told me every ex she had cheated on her, and doesn't think I will (obviously I won't)

It's basically just like the movie she is out of my league. I'm wondering if that's really the reason. She doesn't use me, she wants me to stay at home till I graduate.

[sadie_genie]

You are safe and women likes the feeling of security.

[Cmfd]

So women would really stray that far from their element? From going for tall dark handsome muscular guys, to me, short pail and scrawny, just for security? Don't get me wrong we get along great and have a lot in common. She is used to living with her husband who supported her, and I live at my parents house. I feel like I'm lacking in so many areas yet she is crazy about me and I don't know why

[sadie_genie]

The tall dark handsome muscular guys are fun for short term. We have different criteria for long term. You are focusing too much on your lesser aspect. I am sure, you have many positive qualities that attracted her to you.

[hope~]

Looks arent everything, in the long run most women really just want a man that they connect with in more than just a physical level.