This separation has only been going on 3 months... the first month, we still lived together... The physical separation has been so hard for me... I miss him everyday...We've maintained some sort of relationship... But recently, I don't know what happened... He got upset with me, because of instead of going to a party that his new coworkers invited him to, he stayed talking with me about the relationship... I didn't realize it would upset him this much, and I never told him not to go... This was on Saturday... I was just so sad, because of the holiday (this season is tearing me up because of my broken family)...So he told me today he didn't want to talk... We have a child together and still took him trick or treating together.... We are going to have to remain communicating for our son... But to know that we won't really be communicating other wise is extremely painful.... You know it's bad when your four year old is comforting you and says "You're sad because you miss daddy, huh? It's ok mama, you have me here and you can just pretend that daddy is here"... I don't know if it's going to be worse having to see and hear from him in small doses or if it would be worse to not hear from him at all... I talk to his mom a lot... She's like an angel... She's really supportive and keeps telling me to remain positive and that she knows he still loves and cares for me... I just feel like dying... I'm so sad and I just want my family back together... How do you make it through something like this? I just want someone to tell me it's going to be ok...